(Using "my fiance" rather than his name to avoid confusion in the review due to my fiance's name also being Tom)
My fiance had an intensive course with Tom a few weeks ago, unfortunately, despite me ... Read More
(Using "my fiance" rather than his name to avoid confusion in the review due to my fiance's name also being Tom)
My fiance had an intensive course with Tom a few weeks ago, unfortunately, despite me confirming prior that he was able to cope with someone that has ADHD and a lot of anxiety with driving, this was not the case. Tom assured me that he had a lot of students like my fiance, and he knew how to encourage them, apparently that means making them feel useless, incapable, and never having a positive thing to say.
After that week of driving with Tom, my fiance lost every ounce of confidence, was actually scared of driving, and felt disheartened about the whole thing.
Tom told him that he "felt sorry for anyone who goes out driving with [my fiance]"
Who in the right mind would say that to anyone who is learning? I would like to point that that he is a capable driver, nervous (extra now), but I have been out since with him and he is not dangerous, can drive safely, and is clearly lacking confidence, making him extra cautious. I am a very nervous passenger, who adores her car, so I would not let my fiance drive if there was even a shred of worry.
It appeared that Tom was more worried about ruining his car, clutch mostly, than actually encouraging my fiance. He never had a positive thing to say, only criticised and belittled. I'm utterly heartbroken that this happened as this whole experience was to build his confidence to get him in my car and driving more frequently to build on it for his test next year. We was not expecting him to be test ready after the intensive, merely confident and able to be safe on the road. Tom stole all of the little confidence he had, and now we're starting from a lower point than before the course, and over £1200 lighter. I guess at least he is safe on the road now? Not that Tom thinks so.
I wish I had seen the 1 star review prior to booking, as it would have changed my mind. It appears that person had similar issues that my fiance had with Tom.
Also would like to clarify that this review is to not "defame" Tom, it is merely a warning for those who are nervous drivers, or potentially those that have learning disabilities, and that it may be best to look elsewhere as you probably will not get the help, emotional support, and encouragement that you want/need from Tom.
I'm sure Tom is a good instructor for those who are about test ready, as it seems he will be able to pinpoint the flaws in your driving very quickly. Read Less